“Why am I Such a Failure” – 7 Ways to Deal with and Overcome the Feeling

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Have you heard of Nick Woodman?

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Nick Woodman

Nick Woodman initially had a startup company, Funbug, which was backed with $3.9 million from investors. But Funbug failed and the $3.9 million was lost.

Nick was devastated and decided to take go on a surfing trip.

During his trip, he wanted to take videos while he was surfing. That led to his next idea: cameras that made it easy for people to video while participating in activities.

Nick and his girlfriend sold shell necklaces out of the trunk of their car to raise money for Nick’s business. They also borrowed money from his parents. With that, GoPro, the popular action camera manufacturer, was launched in 2002, and Forbes now estimates Nick’s net worth to be now close to $5 billion.

J. K. Rowling was rejected by multiple publishers before Bloomsbury gave Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone the green light in 1997. Walt Disney was fired from his newspaper job because he “lacked imagination and good ideas.” Winston Churchill failed sixth grade and was considered “a dolt” by his teacher. Soichiro Honda was rejected at Toyota Motor Corporation when he applied for an engineering job, leaving him jobless until he began making scooters in his garage and eventually founded Honda Motor Company.

Now they all could have considered themselves failures despite their first losses and rejections. They had all the reasons for it. They failed at what they wanted to do, with no guarantee they can do better next time.

So what led them to keep trying? Why didn’t they let the feeling strike them down?

Because of one simple thing, really.

 

The knowledge that the supposed “failures” aren’t really failures at all; they are successes in their own right.

 

Let’s find out why.

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How Long it takes to Make a Habit (and 7 ways to start)

How long it takes to make a habit (and 7 ways to get started)
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So as of this moment, as the post is up, there is just over 24 hours left until 2018. Happy New Year, everyone!

Anyone made any New Year’s resolutions yet? Maybe something like taking a walk every morning, or going to the gym daily, or learning something new etc? Most of you probably have something in mind.

Though, ever wondered how long it would take to actually make a habit out of your New Year’s resolutions? Something that’s part of your daily life?

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What do you want to do before you die?

What do you want to do before you die - The Sum Of Life
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A few weeks back, I had a sort of “interview” for a particular business. It wasn’t like a full-time job kind of thing; it’s more of a talk on the proposal of me signing on as a business partner.

Anyway, my “interviewer” asked me things like my hobbies, interests, where do I see myself in 5 years, what do I like to do, what would I like to learn, that sort of casual talk.

About 10-15 minutes into the conversation, he asked me a particular question. Something I wasn’t prepared to answer.

“What do you want to do before you die?

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